Four steps tosomeone who fits.
Aligned front-loads the work. You answer 48 questions once, and from then on your AI and your matchmaker do the filtering — so the people who reach you have already cleared the bar.
01
Answer 48 questions
Not a form — one question per screen, and you can stop and come back exactly where you left off. Values, intentions, attachment style, love languages, how you handle conflict, and the four lists that matter most: deal breakers, green flags, must-haves and nice-to-haves. Several of them take a voice note instead of typing.
02
Train your AI
Your answers become an AI that speaks in your voice. You can keep teaching it — by text or by talking to it — and you can read, edit or delete everything it knows about you at any time. Mark a fact private and it genuinely forgets it for everyone else.
03
People vibe-check you
Before anyone matches with you, they can talk to your AI. Ask it anything. It answers the way you would — and when it doesn't know something, it says so and sends the question back to you to answer yourself.
04
Ask someone out properly
Skip the small talk. Send a real invitation: a day, a time, a place, and why it's worth saying yes. It arrives as the first thing in your chat if they accept.